Jacob and Melissa Honebein

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Reflecting on how we have changed in our first year

Posted by Jacob and Melissa Honebein in Uncategorized on Oct 14th, 2014 | 1 Comment »

This past year has been such a stretching year in regards to all areas of our life. Our lives have been under a ton of stress and change and this has greatly affected our marriage, spiritual lives and our children. We have experienced the stress of a new culture, language and way of living. There was the problem with the water when we first got here, we have changed language helpers, babysitters, moved across town, changed churches and routines, the list goes on. In light of that, Jacob and I thought we needed to take some time to just relax and reconnect just the two of us for our 6th wedding anniversary. Our new nanny is such a capable young lady and great with the kids, so we felt comfortable leaving them for the weekend. We spent a great weekend together, eating good food, sleeping in air conditioning, showering in hot water in a quiet hotel here in Dakar. It was just what we needed. It was a weekend where I could really relax. It was a time to reconnect with God and each other. We praised God for this wonderful opportunity.
A day after we got back we went on a missions trip with our church to a village a few hours away. It was quite a contrast to our weekend and a stretching but good experience. Please read our last blog post to hear more about it.

Grilling mutton

Grilling mutton

October 5th was Tabaski here.  It is the biggest holiday of the year and we were invited to spend it with our neighbors. We did this last year but this year was so different. We were with different neighbors. We were much more comfortable than last year. We participated in preparing the food and didn’t just watch. We were able to communicate and enter into conversations. We got to eat with them instead of in a room by ourselves. Our kids had a blast playing with their kids. They didn’t like the food as much this year because there was more pepper in it but they knew how to eat around the bowl with everyone. After thinking over the differences from Tabaski this year vs last year’s; it was so encouraging to see after a year of being here, the difference in our lives.


Eating mutton with onion sauce, fries, bread and mayonnaise.

We came feeling so uncomfortable, unable to do much correctly. After one year, we are able to communicate quite a bit, enter into people’s lives, have friends and feel more at ease in their homes. Our kids came not knowing any French and in fact refusing to learn it. Now they both speak and understand most French spoken to them. On a practical level: I went from not knowing how to wash fruits and veggies correctly, or how to clean a chicken properly, to being comfortable with these things. Please praise God with us for the work He has done, and the work that He will continue to do in our lives. Thank you for your help in being here.

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Village missions trip

Posted by Jacob and Melissa Honebein in Uncategorized on Oct 14th, 2014 | 1 Comment »

Our church took a missions trip to a village a few hours away from here.  Their hope is to partner with a missionary to plant a church in the village there.  We left at 9am on Tuesday morning with a full 15 passenger van.

Loading the van.  Jacob's packing skills put to use again.

Loading the van. Jacob’s packing skills put to use again.

We stayed in at a youth camp near the village that was not in good working order, but we learned to be content with a few of the difficulties.  We got to see God provide the grace needed during that trip just like He provided what we needed to get through jungle camp in Canada years ago.

Our group before we left

Our group before we left

The first day we got settled at the camp and got to talk to the missionary and plan out the week.  Wednesday and Thursday morning we worked in the fields weeding, planting and fertilizing plants in a garden.  Caleb loved using the tools and helping out.  Grace had lots of fun with the daughter of the missionary family.

working with the pastor's son

working with the pastor’s son


Wednesday afternoon we got to host the pastors of the area to find out what is going on in the area and what they see as the needs of the area. IMG_2544

Thursday afternoon we got to go into the village and hand out walking canes.  I enjoyed using my nursing skills to fit people for their canes and teaching them how to walk with them.  I did it mostly through a rough translation into Wolof and through gestures.IMG_2594

Friday we packed up after another wonderful breakfast of tapalapa bread (a bread baked in an earthen oven) with tuna or with nutella on it.  They served it with hot milk.  They normally added 3 tsp of sugar to each cup and sometimes a tsp of instant coffee.  It was really good even without sugar.

After breakfast we headed to the missionary’s house to debrief on the week and we were able to see the work of a local pastor.  He has a kindergarten, seamstress school, dormitory for traveling pastors and a chapel on his property. On our way home we stopped at a place called Beersheba.  It is a farm that trains people in agriculture and disciples them in the process.  They currently have 16 students in the middle of the one year course.  They train them in new techniques of farming and animal husbandry while also teaching them the Bible.  We left there very encouraged.

We enjoyed the week overall. It was neat to see how the missionary couple shared Bible stories and songs with the kids that were watching as we worked.  It was difficult for us to communicate with them because we didn’t know their tribal language and they didn’t know much French.  It was interesting to watch how our church planned and went about their first missions trip.  It was so neat to get to know the people that came on the trip.  Our kids really became attached to the guys and enjoyed hanging out with them. We were really glad we went.

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chébou jen

Posted by Jacob and Melissa Honebein in Uncategorized on Aug 22nd, 2014 | 1 Comment »

I got the privilege of hanging out with my neighbor all day last Saturday as she taught me how to prepare chébou jen; a local dish here. It is a dish served with either brown or red rice(rice that is cooked with tomato paste), fish and vegetables. We went to the market together from 9:30 till 10:15am. Then we walked to her house about a 15 minute walk away. We said hi to many of her friends and family along the way. When we got to her home she introduced me to her family and got me a change of clothes to work in. Her home was open in the middle with rooms to the right of an open courtyard. The kitchen was on the left of the courtyard. It was in a small cement building that had a storage closet and a stand pipe (for water) outside the building. The kitchen consisted of a broken fridge, a big cabinet and a stove with many wooden stools stacked in between the fridge and the cabinet. We sat down on wooden stools and started preparing the meal. It was fun to work along side of her and to learn how she did things. Because she doesn’t have sink in her kitchen we used basins that we put on the floor as we peeled and cut the vegetables.  She made many trips to the pipe outside to get water in the basins to wash the food. The preparation took us all morning and afternoon. In between the different steps we watched our kids, she cleaned the house and we did dishes together.

Before the boys would let me take their picture they all had to put their shirts back on. My kids wanted to be silly and stick out their tongues.

Watching young kids included settling disputes over toys, keeping them entertained, and teaching my kids how to go potty on a squatty potty or in a bowl for the first time. Kids under 3 are not disciplined much here because they say that this will make them “hard ears”(stubborn or insolent) afterwards. After age 5 the kids here are so well behaved but until then we need to have patience with them. This was a little challenging when a little boy is trying to pull your kids off a play horse or hitting them. Or when he totally disobeys his mom and throws things at her. But I just need to remember it is only for a time. The older kids take great care of the younger kids and serve and obey their parents well.

When the meal was almost done she had her prayer time and so did the grandma of the house and the oldest boy (he was probably 8 years old). Grace asked him what he was singing. He said he wasn’t singing, he was praying. They then all took a bucket shower and changed their clothes before lunch. After the food was cooked she put it into several different bowls and platters for her family. She sent platters to her husband and brother in law at their boutiques. Other platters were for her aged mother in law, (she ate separately), one for Jacob and one for us. In her home, she cooks a few days a week and her sister in law cooks the other days of the week for their extended family. We then all sat around a mat and ate lunch together around one platter of food. After cleaning up and doing the dishes. We headed home. It was 4pm as we walked home. It was a great day of seeing how my friend lives, asking her questions about multiple topics, learning how to cook this meal and having our kids play together. Thank you God for the privilege of being here and for bringing me friends.

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My first funeral in Senegal

Posted by Jacob and Melissa Honebein in Uncategorized on Aug 14th, 2014 | Comments Off

It all started on Sunday afternoon when my friend Khady called me and told me her grandma had died. Her grandma was like a mom to her.  I knew I needed to go to this even though it was about two hours away in a village I had never been to.  It was decided at 8:30am Monday morning that my househelp would come with me and we needed to leave in an hour.  We left at 9:30 am and took a taxi to a big yard where there were bigger taxis waiting to take people places.  We squeezed in the back of car called a Sept place ( It is like a station wagon but 3 people sit in the trunk, 3 in the back seat and one in the front, thus the name seven places).  We rode for about an hour and a half until we got to another city, took another Sept place to another smaller city and then took another car into the village.  This time it was just us in the car.  We drove on dirt roads much like the side roads in Colorado to this village but on the side of the road were horse drawn carts carrying people on the back bed (Bush taxis).  We got to Khady’s village at 12:30.

Her grandpa had a big plot of land in which he lived with his 3 wives.  Each wife had a her own section of the land for her and her family.  There were probably close to 6 different concrete buildings on the compound.  The compound was surrounded by a concrete wall as was many of the other compounds surrounding it.  The homes near by were all owned by different uncles of Khady.  The men were seen hanging out at her uncles homes and the women were seen at her grandma’s home.  Everyone was found under trees or rented tents to protect them from the sun.  Women were cooking over big pots over the fire preparing the meal for the afternoon.   Shortly after arriving we were introduced to the many aunts, cousins and sisters of Khady.  Some of her aunts were nuns.  I got to see her grandma’s kitchen.  It was a building with a very short doorway and thatched roof.  One small window the size of a book.  There was a hen laying eggs in the corner, big pots over fires, basins made of clay that are able to cool the water in them, big calabash bowls and different types of mortars and pestles for pounding different types of food. We were served the meal shortly after greeting everyone.  It was served in a huge basin and everyone ate around that basin with their hands or with spoons.

We then went into her grandma’s home and saw the casket which was set up in her grandma’s room.  It was a plain wood box covered by black and white weaved fabric.  This is a special fabric used for funerals and babies.  We walked up to the casket, Khady opened it and her grandma was covered in a head wrap and scarf.  Only her nose and eyes showed.  Then Khady told me we needed to walk around the casket.  It wasn’t ok just to walk up to it.  After seeing her grandma we sat on the bed in the room next store, ate lunch and hung out until the funeral procession started around 3pm.  The funeral procession started by some men coming to carry the casket just under a tent outside the home.  There the priest prayed and chanted in Wolof, the local tribal language and blessed the casket with holy water.  This water was in a old rusty metal pot and was sprayed on the casket with a flower branch.  Then they put the casket into the back of an ambulance and we walked behind it singing to the church. At the entrance of the church the casket was put on a stand outside while more singing and praying was done.  Then it was put in the front of the church. The church service was done in Wolof complete with choir, pipe organ and communion.  There were over 200 people there.  The church was simple with wooden benches without backs and paintings of the stations of the cross around the walls.  The paintings were with African people coming to Jesus and others participating in the crucifixion.  What a reminder, we are all responsible for Christ’s death. After the service, they blessed the casket with holy water and then the casket was taken out of the church to the cemetery.  The cemetery was in the back of the church.  The crowd followed the casket to the cemetery. I didn’t get to see this process as my friend did not want to be there for it.

We went back to her house to figure out a ride back to Dakar.  There were no public cars that left there and we had missed the only bus.  Praise God her aunt had come from a near by town with her car and had room to take us with her.  It was the only car I saw at the funeral.  I was afraid I would have had to take a bush taxi or spend the night there.  :-)

After the crowd returned from the cemetery the immediate family sat under a tent and received all the guests.  Each guest gave their condolences and dropped money into a basin in front of the family.  The guests were then given a snack of crackers, mints and couscous balls.  They then were served a meal shortly afterward.  Each meal we were given was either rice or couscous on the bottom of the basin with a baseball sized portion of meat in the middle.  We left shortly after.  We were taken to a near by town by her aunt and we took a Sept place to Dakar from there.  We got home at 9:30pm at night.  A long day but well worth it for the experience and to show my friend she meant a lot to me.  It was so good to see where she grew up and hear many stories of her family.  Unfortunately, I forgot my camera.  Thus there are no pictures.

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The changes we make

Posted by Jacob and Melissa Honebein in Uncategorized on May 23rd, 2014 | 1 Comment »

When I thought about coming to another country, I knew that I was going to need to change a lot to be effective in that country.  I never really understood what it meant until I came here.

I wanted to give you some examples of how God is working in us and allowing us to change in fun and hard ways.  All of these examples are what we have learned so far and are subject to change as we learn more about life here.

We are learning to greet our neighbours properly.  This means we ask about their families – husband (or wife) and children. It is similar to the States where the response is expected to be “ça vas bien”, (its going well) regardless of what is really happening. It is very important that our children learn to shake hands with everyone when they enter a room full of people. There are children here who will go from one person to the next until they shook everyone’s hand before they go off to play. I think it is a sign of their respect for the older people. Grace needs a little help with that at times; Caleb does it a little more willingly. This is a little different for us.

We are learning how to host people in our home.  When we want to offer them a drink we say, “I have water or coffee, what do you want?”  or ” I will bring the coffee out.”   Not, “Do you want a drink or do you want something to eat?”  If the person says thank you, that means no.  When they leave, I should insist at least once that they stay or they will think I didn’t want them here.

We are learning how to make different foods that people like here and to eat a bit like them.

People eat around one bowl here, sometimes on the floor like we are here and sometimes around a small table with the bowl on it. We try to do this at least once a week to get our kids used to this way of eating.We are learning how to clean more like them.  Bending from the waist down and not squatting or kneeling.  My body is going to take some time to be able to truly bend the way they do.  We are learning how to dress like they do in clothes and hair.  They really like it when we do this and make comments like “Now you are Senegalese”.  It shows that we accept them and their way of doing things when we dress like them.


Our national nanny, Awa braided Grace’s hair. Grace loves it, while momma is reserving her opinion…

Another thing that I am learning to change, is my reaction of surprise or shock when a friend asks for things directly, for example “give me those cookies for my house and family.”  I just need to realize that it is ok and normal that they ask that, when they are my friend.

These examples above are about physical things but what about family values, how you spend your money, how you raise your kids?  What are the things that are scriptural things and what things are just cultural?  Where is the balance of being “a wise steward” and being culturally appropriate as well?  What a wise steward is here, looks different than in the States.  Here if you give to others you are a wise steward.  In the States, you are wise if you save your money.

When we were in Canada at the Missions Training Centre, they told us all about “becoming”. We needed to change to become relevant to those we are around. We filed that info and now that we are in the midst of it, BECOMING is a way of life, not just like a quick change like we would change our clothes. We don’t become relevant in a day or a few weeks even, but this is going to be a life-long process. We are constantly choosing to be relevant in this culture; by the way we greet people, dress, cook, shop, visit with people, host, worship and the list could go on and on. To have a meaningful ministry among these people we must be relevant to them.  We have the freedom to be like them to the degree it doesn’t contradict scripture. We will always be different because our skin colour and probably our accent, but we are looking for ways we can fit in better and live like they do. That is a constant challenge. But it is one God is giving us the grace to meet. We are learning new things everyday.

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Some fun stories of what it is like to learn a new language and culture.

Posted by Jacob and Melissa Honebein in Uncategorized on Nov 18th, 2013 | 2 Comments »

We had a holiday here a few days ago. We had no idea what it was for. We noticed different things happen during the day like boys pounding on little drums and little kids with wigs on and a lot of makeup. We didn’t think much of it except when our friend from school told us some the details she had noticed the next day. She said that the kids go around with drums, they dress up like the opposite gender and play their drums and dance at neighbor’s homes for candy, money or food. Now we understood what we observed the day before.  We were also told that the reason for this holiday is to celebrate when a prophet and his followers were being chased by pharaoh and his armies and God helped them cross a sea to escape pharaoh. So now they fast during daylight hours, the day before and the day of the holiday as thanks to god. Don’t a lot of these traditions and stories sound familiar? This is an example of how we are learning culture by observing things that we may not get right away, asking questions when we can communicate them and doing a lot of watching.

One thing I observed just today is a man carrying a cage full of small birds. I think they were finches. We have seen these cages and guys carrying them before, but I never knew what they were for. I was standing outside the grocery store waiting for Melissa when the store manager came out and gave the man with the birds 500CFA (around $1 US). He said 10 (in French) and the man with the birds opened up his cage and grabbed one bird at a time until he let 10 birds go. They flew off when he opened his hand. I am sure there was some cultural significance to it, but I have no idea what it means or why they do it. These are just a few things we have observed lately.

Below are some funny things that have happened while we have been learning a new language and culture.
I have called a forehead, a forest.

I searched all over the grocery store (with the help from multiple people at the same time) for the things that are like small dates but then to realize that the word I was looking for, “raisins” is the same word in French. All I had to do was ask if they had raisins and they would have been able to tell me no they didn’t have them. We all laughed at that one!

I was on the bus and a man asked if I wanted to sit down. I did want to sit down because I had the kids with me. I said thank you and he kept sitting. Saying thank you is their polite way of saying no. Oops!

Shaking your fist at someone is called showing your wrist with closed fingers.
Crossing your legs is called crossing your feet. Also something isn’t between your legs, it is between your feet. These observations are not coming from a complete understanding and we might find that these are the words they use for these specific circumstances only.

So as you can see language learning is very interesting and fun too.  We have a lot of laughs.  We are so glad that people here are patient with us and laugh with us.

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Posted by Jacob and Melissa Honebein in Uncategorized on Nov 4th, 2013 | Comments Off

Overall, we think our visit with our neighbors for Tabaski went well. I will describe what went on but it hard to put into words the internal wrestling we had the whole day about what we should talk about with them, how should we act, etc. For instance, is it ok if we watched them work, were they asking if we wanted to eat with them out of courtesy or because they didn’t know what to do with us or did they really want us to eat away from them? We don’t think we offended them in any big ways at least because we still are welcomed into their home and we still visit with them there. Praise God for that. We are praying that we will continue to be a light and witness by our actions and that this friendship will continue to grow. Below is the description of the day.
On Tabaski, we walked across the street to our neighbors home and walked in the open door way without knocking. Oomee came and brought us into her living room and told us to sit. The TV was on and she left us there for a while. We weren’t sure what to do. Then Oomee came back and we went out in the hallway. In the hallway her mom and aunts and cousins were getting their hair done. (Adding weave with string and needle to their hair). The men were in their two small courtyards that had no roofs and had tile walls and floors. They were skinning, gutting and chopping the sheep in pieces with axes, knives and machetes. It was a messy process. Blood was all over the tile floors of the house as they were bringing the meat to various places to be washed, seasoned, boiled and grilled. We spent most of the morning wandering back and forth watching them as they cut the meat, cooked the meat over little grills and as they prepared salad, onion sauce and french fries in the kitchen. The family was snacking most of the morning on the different pieces of meat they were cooking. The piece they gave me was actually pretty good just a bit salty. I also was given sheep liver to eat. It was seasoned nicely but the texture totally got me. But I got it down without gagging, Praise God! We were invited to sit down to eat with Oomee in her bedroom while her family ate in the hallway. Initially she was going to eat with her family and we were we all going to eat apart from her family. But she asked us if we wanted her to eat with us instead. We said we would do whatever she wanted us to, but it would be nice to eat with her to get to know her better. She came in and we sat on the floor around a big platter full of the food. The platter had lettuce, French fries, baguettes, ribs, liver and onion sauce. After lunch we went home with our kids so they could nap. In the evening we saw our neighbors going out all dressed up in their nicest clothes to visit their friends. The days after Tabaski, there were not very many people around and there was not very many taxis or even buses. Everyone was away visiting in their village or their families homes for the celebration and they did not travel back till the week after. Because of the traveling we saw a bunch of people mob a bus to get on to travel to see their families for Tabaski. The week before Tabaski, on many street corners sheep were sold, but afterwards you could hardly find a sheep if you wanted to buy one. People will spend
$70-$1,000 (USD) on a sheep. It is an obligation if you have money to buy sheep. You don’t buy what you need to eat but you buy the max you can afford. The family we ate with killed four adult sheep. There were 25 people eating that day so there were lots of left overs. Tabaski is like our Christmas in the States – full of tradition and time with family. Families visit each other and friends and you eat a lot of food.

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An average day for us (If there is such a thing in Africa!)

Posted by Jacob and Melissa Honebein in Uncategorized on Oct 12th, 2013 | 1 Comment »


We would like to share with you what a typical day here in Africa is like. We leave our house at 7:30am and walk to the bus stop. The bus stop is a stop under a tree with a broken bench under it. There is no other markings designating the stop. The bus comes anywhere from 7:30-8:10am. One day it didn’t come at all and we found out later that a major car accident on the main road prevented any busses from coming. As we wait for the bus we see people walking by, taxis, cars, SUVs, and buses driving by. People walk or ride their bicycles past us with open big brown bags or rolling carts full of baguettes that they are taking to bread stores. People are setting up for market up the street by sweeping around their stands, setting up their canvas or plastic roofs and setting out their wares, which could be clothing, fruit and vegetables or many other things.

traffic and a city bus near our school

When the bus comes it is much like a normal city bus in the States. We stand most of the time holding the yellow bars on the ceiling. Many times the bus sways or stops suddenly and we are constantly thrown into other passengers but everyone is in the same place and no one seems to care. It is an adjustment being that close to other people. There doesn’t seem to be much of a “personal space” on the busses. As we ride we watch outside as the bus drives around other buses, avoids big sewage puddles, and drives around roundabouts. We see people selling water in little bags or big 1.5 L bottles, newspapers, and people begging in wheelchairs at stop lights.
Our classroom is on the ground floor of an apartment building. The street it is on has a big median in the middle. On Saturdays this median turns into a very busy market with traffic on both sides. During the week, people (mostly women and children) sit in the median on buckets or on the ground. They are eating breakfast there. On the side of the road and in the median there are structures that have poles with sheets of plastic around them. Sometime they have a roof, sometimes they don’t. There are benches in them and ladies serving people breakfast in them. They seem to be mini restaurants.


See the structure with no roof to the left, that is a mini restaurant. See the people sitting on buckets. They are eating breakfast there.

There are also little children begging for money or food.  I have seen a woman sitting on a bucket with two young children near her. She had one toddler asleep on her knee and one crying in her arms. She used no covering as she breast feed the baby. Another small adjustment for us. It seems like they spend the day on the intersection comer with their children. They hang their laundry up on the side of the road with lines that are hung between the trees. Their lives are so different from ours. Our neighbor kid’s toys are rocks instead of jacks and sticks instead of play swords. And oh you can’t forget a flat soccer ball that doesn’t roll, but rather flops around the field. How to I grapple with the disparity I see? How do I care for the boys who beg for money that is then given to the religious leaders who “care” for these children. I give them food sometimes but money will not help them. It is hard to think of boys 5 and older with no one to love on them.

Our French school is very different than most. We sit around a table listening to our language helper telling us the words for various objects and actions and we either point or act out what she says to do. Then there are exercises where we try to form commands, questions or sentences with words that we know and our language helper either responds to and corrects our speech. It is a great way to learn and very challenging. We have a very patient language helper.

By the time we leave school at 1pm. The people in the median are in the shade of a big sign sitting with their children and either eating or chatting with each other. There are people selling watermelons, peanuts and coconuts on the side of the road and lots of traffic. We find it easier and quicker to walk for a while before we call a taxi because most times there is so much traffic that we would be waiting in a hot taxi with no air conditioning. Then we head home and get home around 1:45pm.

We eat lunch around 2pm and try to rest a bit. Between the heat and the language learning all morning, we are normally exhausted by the time we get home. We then spend the rest of the day in a combination of activities from shopping, cooking, spending time with and taking care of our kids, listening to language lessons, corresponding with people, cleaning up things etc. Things here take longer to do and take more energy to do them because of the heat and because things are harder to get or get to. We don’t have a vehicle at present and so we either walk or take a taxi most places. That adds time as well as heat. Many times we cannot find the things we want to buy at the markets by our house so we have to walk 20 mins or so to the Supermarket. We can’t buy much at a time because we have to carry everything home. Calling a taxi is expensive for the distance we need to go.

The children have a bed time routine that generally takes about an hour. They get a bath every night, then we read the Bible Story book, then we usually sing “if you are happy and you know it” or “Our God is so Big”, then we pray usually for Grandma and Grandpa (on both sides) and sometimes the list includes all the aunts and uncles. It also usually includes 2 or more of our prayer and financial partners. Then we give them one last drink of water and put the nets down as the children get into bed. The mosquito coil is lit and we let them sleep while Melissa and I listen to our class recordings for the next day. By the time we are finished with that, it is anywhere between 10:00 and 11:30. Bed time so we can do it all over again in the morning.

Saturdays we get to relax a little more and shop or go to the mission park. Sundays we go to church. That is an experience. We don’t understand much yet, but we are progressing. We would like to be more involved when we are able to understand more.
That is what a typical day looks like, but things vary so much it is hard to define typical. We had to go to the American Embassy to get some papers last week and there was no class scheduled. It rained and we were cold! People don’t believe it could get cold here, but it is true, I wish I had a sweatshirt on that day. Once or twice a week we usually go to the mission office for our mail after class, so that changes the afternoon a little. We are beginning to spend some time with our neighbors, but our communication is still pretty limited. We are excited to see the progress, but it will take a while to get to the level we need to be at. If you have any thoughts, feel free to write or call.

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Food Prep

Posted by Jacob and Melissa Honebein in Uncategorized on Sep 7th, 2013 | Comments Off

So how is life different here? I will start by describing cooking. I have to use filtered water to cook with and drink. We need to soak our vegetables and fruit in bleach water before eating them. I use a gas stove that the degrees are in Celsius vs Fahrenheit. My measuring cups have grams not cups on them.
Shopping takes longer because not every grocery store has everything I need in it. I walk to the grocery store. I can only buy a little produce and bread at a time or it goes bad to quickly. This means that I have to go shopping more frequently.
The other day, I tried to buy eggs from a convenience store called a “boutique” here. I didn’t know the word for eggs so I tried looking for them so I could point to them. I couldn’t see them. I knew the word for chicken and tried to say that they make them. That didn’t work. I was so afraid I was going to have to act like a chicken laying an egg for them to get it but then someone came in that spoke English and helped me. I was so glad. I really did not want to be playing charades for all to see. I am already a spectacle.
We can not get cream soups, black beans, pickle relish, dill weed, and not all vegetables in the grocery stores. Cheese, milk and yogurt are very different. I miss the cheese and milk in the States. You can get fresh baguettes and rolls at road side stands. They are very good. Mangos and papaya are in season and are so good!
Meat can be bought in the grocery stores but is very expensive. Or you can buy it at a butcher where there is no refrigeration, there are flies all over the meat and they handle money and meat at the same time. I bought beef there this week. I plan on cooking it for hours to make sure it is ok to eat. That is what most people do and it is ok.
Chickens come with feet and neck attached and heart and liver still inside. Sometimes a few feathers still poking out of the skin. The meat is something I am going to take a bit to get used to.
So that is a little about food prep. I will write more later about other things..

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Miracles that remind us that God is a good God

Posted by Jacob and Melissa Honebein in Uncategorized on Aug 25th, 2013 | Comments Off

I have sometimes stressed over the uncertainties of living overseas from safety to health to finances. But I have remembered that God is first of all a good God and secondly I can remember many times in my life where God has provided and protected. Let me tell you of two of them.
As I child living overseas I had seizures. They were so bad at times that my mom wondered if I would ever make it to college. I can’t imagine how hard it was for her to see me go through that. But God protected me. In high school my seizures stopped with medicine and in college I was still seizure-free even without medicine. I was cured! Now I am married, and have children. All the things my mom wondered if they were even possible. God can protect and heal our health.

On our way to Canada we were pulling a trailer that was loaded to the brim.  We made it to Canada and months later, a mechanic looked under the trailer and realized that the tongue only had one inch of metal holding it together!  And we made it all the way to Canada even on very bumpy Michigan roads with one inch of metal.  Totally a God thing.  So I know that God can protect us from harm.  I know He wants us here.  I can trust Him.

When the choice to quit work was presented before one of our many trips across the country, we prayed that God would give us wisdom. This would mean that we would not receive any more guaranteed income. We would live off of our support. We decided to stop working and continue our support raising. Within 5 minutes of calling my work, someone else called and asked if they could come by and drop off a gift. God confirmed our decision to quit work with a check for $3,000!!! He was giving us peace about the timing of everything and we are confident He will continue this provision. Maybe not everything we want, but definitely everything we need. He is indeed a good God!

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