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Basketball and Dorm Parenting

Posted by Jon and Katie Ruse on Monday, January 30th, 2012
 There are certainly plenty of difficult things about dorm parenting.  Trying to spend quality time with your own kids, making meals all the time, cleaning up endlessly, always being ready to make decisions and give direction, helping with homework.

Katie & Rachel

On the other hand there are some things that are just plain fun like having a birthday party, playing in the rain, taking a group of teens tubing down the river, watching a movie, singing and dancing, cheering them on in sports, or just having a good talk.  One of those fun things Katie enjoyed this term was playing basketball with our dorm girls.  Let me explain!  We had 4 girls who were on the high school team and their only official games are during 2 tournaments.  So, in the weeks leading up to the tournaments they scrimmage the women (New Tribes moms, singles, etc.) for “practice”.

 
So Katie got to rough it up on the court with some of our girls.  Let’s just say the women definitly gave the girls some competition and Katie had a blast.  We want to praise God that her back was strong enough and continues to hold upwell now. 

Women's Team

We are excited as we look towards next term.  A few of our girls will be playing soccer and I(Jon) will be assistent coach for the guys high schoool basketball team!  The men usually play basketball every Monday night so it has been great to develop relationships with some of these teen guys that I will be coaching.  I am excited to see how God will use this avenue for me to be an example and impact some of the young teen guys here

*Pray for Katie and I that we will balance our time  & responsibilities well this next term as coaching will take extra time away from our family and the dorm!

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Christmas In Papua New Guinea

Posted by Jon and Katie Ruse on Monday, January 30th, 2012

There are certain things in life that are completely different than you ever expected.  This can be good and bad and is mostly both.  I can’t explain all of the feelings we went through over this holiday season but one thing I know for sure.  It was hard & different, but full of God’s grace. 

After a “unexpectedley” lonely thanksgiving (dorm girls were gone because Katelyn had Mumps) we pulled out our box of Christmas decorations that we had shipped over here from Michigan.  In the Dorm Storage here we found a Christmas tree, a few decorations, and a large blow-up Frosty-the-Snowman later nicknamed “Ricardo” don’t ask me why! So we started with the small decor’ around the house.  By the weekend the dorm girls were back and we put up the tree, ran lights around the porch, kitchen, and dining room.  Then I set up Frosty “Ricardo” and he was a hit around the neighborhood and became the dorm girls favorite man.  They named Him and gave Him hugs everyday.   First, strange experience:  hooking up christmas lights through a transformer, and buying some 240Volt lights off another missionary.  Second strange experience: decorating the porch outside without being cold or having numb fingers.  Next came going through the Christmas gifts we had shipped over and wrapping!  Third strange experience: not going shopping for Christmas presents, recieving Christmas gifts by mail, and wrapping some gifts from our parents for our kids! 

“Dorm Christmas” was a blast.  We had a party with snacks, gifts, and my mom’s famous “Egg Nog” made not so famous by me!  This was a taste of home but felt strange doing an early Christmas with our adopted girls before they headed home to their own families for break.  Then came time for our own very different Christmas.  Strange: the weather wasn’t snowy and cold but rainy and 70 degrees!  We “traveled” to Grandpa & Grandma Ruse’s house for Christmas eve by opening their presents under our tree while taking video and pictures.  Then Christmas morning we had our somewhat normal traditions and opening of gifts as a family.  Christmas afternoon we “hit the road again” to Papa & Grandma Jurgensen’s house by opening their gifts under our tree while skyping and talking on the phone with them and taking pictures!  It was so hard to be away from our home and family, but we are so thankful for technology.  To be able to see their faces, and talk to them and see things familiar even through the computer was a great comfort.

New Years eve we joined some other couples here for games, and then rode the motorcycle around campus at Midnight supossedly as loudly as possible!  Strange New Tradition:  however, my bike’s headlight went out right away so we went back to the house and went to bed.  Instead of watching football games and enjoying the warmth of the large Ruse Family gathering on New Years Day, I checked ESPN online to see game scores, we played wii as a family, and we skyped with my parents.  It was very cool to be able to walk around my parents house  and see everyone hanging out, see the food, see my new baby nephew, find out my sister-in-law is pregnant, go to the basement and see all my nephew’s and niece’s playing together, and feel like we were almost really there.  Strange: we are 13 hours ahead so many of these experiences with family were after we had already celebrated or the next morning!�
I don’t think I will ever forget this first Christmas away.  It was hard for us, but God is good and brought joy to our families despite the miles between us all!

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Speaking in Student Chapel

Posted by Jon and Katie Ruse on Thursday, October 27th, 2011
 
Grades 7-12 Student Chapel

Grades 7-12 Student Chapel

 It seems like such a long time since I have been able to speak to a large group of teens.  Believe it or not it has already been close to 3 and a half years since I was working at Rotbbury Community Church.  Well, this Tuesday I was able to speak at the Student Chapel for grades 7-12.  This was so much fun and God guided me in what to share, but I forgot how much time it takes to be well prepared to give a solid message.  It did not help that I was sick the week before with Strep Throat and had little energy to give.  Thankfully, I was feeling better by Moday and able to finish.

 So Tuesday was a crazy day.  We got up and made breakfast, then Katie had to rush to have all the kids ready and make it to Ellaina & Ben’s assembly while at the same time I was speaking at the High School Chapel.  She is amazing, she even managed to get a couple pictures of me in the
Speaking at Chapel

Speaking at Chapel

 midst.  Right after chapel, I had to leave (late) along with the other dorm dad and go to town for the “mail run” (every Tuesday).  While in town,  we drop off and pick up mail for everyone living here on center, then we go the open market for our dorm produce & fruit and to the stores for any needed groceries (if we are lucky) that we can’t find at the center store.   After, we get back it’s a rush to get all the produce washed, lunch prepared, eat, clean up, and then it’s time for our “Dorm Meeting” (every Tuesday afternoon).  It already looks like there are many potential students hoping to enter the dorms next year (one part of our meetings discussion).  This means we may have to cram them into two dorms, do home placements, or find another set of dorm parents and open a third dorm.  Granted there is still a lot of time before next July, and many changes will happen by then but this is definately something we would love you to pray about with us.

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First Term in the Dorm

Posted by Jon and Katie Ruse on Thursday, October 27th, 2011

Ever wonder…What is it like to have a family of twelve?  Fun, busy, loud, crazy, tons of food, not much sleep, games, family devotions, great conversations, piles of laundry, hours of homework, and great times!  We know God perfectly picked the 6 teen girls that would best fit with our family and we have truly enjoyed getting to know each of them.  Each is very unique– different needs, talents, personalities, etc. and we love each one.  We are overwhelmed with how the girls have embraced our own kids.  They love having older sisters who read them books, walk with them to school, sit by them at meals, and play with them.  This is an answer to prayer!  Along with the joys, there have been many adjustments as a family and trials along the way.  However, the Lord has been faithful to meet all of our needs and give us the energy and grace needed each day.  We praise Him for this and thank Him for your prayers on our behalf!  We couldn’t do this on our own!

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One of our highlights has been supporting the girls (4 of our 6 who played on the softball team) by going to games and tournaments.  We also watched band performances, took pictures of them doing class projects, hosted sleepovers, helped with homework, played games or baked with them, scrubbed stains, cared for the sick, shared hugs, had deep conversations about the Lord and life, and enjoyed praying together.  We love serving these girls and their families in this way!  Each girl has returned to spend time with their families in a remote tribal locations for the 2 1/2 week school break.  We are now resting, regrouping as a family, catching up on things, and looking forward to their return on October 10th.

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Easter Weekend In The Dorm

Posted by Jon and Katie Ruse on Tuesday, May 3rd, 2011
 
Dinner in The Dorm
Dinner in The Dorm

We were given the opportunity to “dorm sit” over Easter weekend.  Our whole family moved into a dorm for four nights while the current dorm parents went on a much needed family vacation.  We really enjoyed the opportunity to get to know these youth!  Due to various situations this year, the dorm was down to 3 girls and 3 guys from an original 10. However, their 6 plus our 4 made 10 kids for the weekend! 

Easter Egg Hunt

Easter Egg Hunt

 Special activities we enjoyed:

  • Thursday night we hung out late playing card games and getting to know them.
  • Friday night pizza and the movie, “Tangled”.
  • Saturday evening “get-to-know-you” games.
  • Sunday after church we enjoyed a big Easter dinner.
  • Ellaina and Katie hid Easter Eggs for the “big kids” who had a blast looking for them!
  • Then the teens hid the eggs for our kids.  I’m not sure who had more fun!
  • Sunday evening we enjoyed doing worship and dorm devotions.
  • We also ate a lot of cake, ice cream, and chocolate chip cookies!
  • Monday morning we went with half the teens on a hike up a nearby little mountain with our language helper.  This was a good opportunity for them to get out of the fence and see the community around the center. The scenery was beautiful!
  • We enjoyed a picnic lunch on the top of a grassy hillside at one of the nationals’ house and a swim in the large river after we crossed it on the way back!

    Hiking

    Hiking

We were extremely tired by Tuesday when we had to start back into our 7th week of language learning!  However, our whole family really enjoyed getting to know these teenagers and spending time with them.  Seeing the potential for lifelong relationships and the need to challenge them spiritually and prepare them for life after high school gave us a renewed passion for this ministry.  We were encouraged and grew more excited as we look forward to dorm parenting full time when school starts again in July.  Even though they are Missionary Kids (MK’s), they are just like teenagers you would find at your church and what an opportunity to disciple as you live along side them!

 

 Praise the Lord with us for:

 

  • Recovered sleep and health! 
  • Our container arriving this week!!! 
  • Language learning going well.
  • Relationships being built with nationals, fellow missionaries, and MK’s.

 Prayer Requests:

  • To grow in our ability to communicate in Pidgin.
  • Our family may spend 2 weeks in a tribe in June.  Parents of a future dorm kid work in this tribe.  Pray we will be able to build a good relationship with them.
  • Tim and Kerri Shepherd (Her back has kept her down for the past 2 months. They are needed for the other dorm in July!  Pray the Lord strengthens and heals her back and directs them for the future. We’d love to work with them, Lord willing!)
  • Wisdom as we continue with dorm orientation.
  • For the Lord to place the individuals HE would like in our dorm next year.
  • Pray we will have intimate time with the Lord and that He will make us into the parents and people He wants us to be.
  • Time for Jon and I as it is hard to “get out” together in this kind of setting.

 THANK YOU all for your prayers, encouragement, and support!  We truly saw God’s hand on our weekend! YOU are a vital part of this ministry and we praise God for you!!

 

 

 

 

 
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Adventures In Langauge Learning!

Posted by Jon and Katie Ruse on Thursday, April 14th, 2011
 
 
Passim Lo Banana

Passim Lo Banana

 If you thought bananas grew good and ripe on their own, then think again!  Have you ever wondered how grass huts were made or how to start a fire without matches?  Maybe you’ve wondered how coffee was grown or prepared.
 
 

Drying Coffee

Drying Coffee

 These are just a few of the many things we have done or observed recently. Our goal is to be able to describe or tell someone what we did using Pidgin.  This means taking pictures, recording stories, piecing it all together afterwards and practicing.  It is amazing how quickly you learn this way with a lot of exposure, interaction, and visual aid.  It is now our fifth week of language study and we feel like we can carry on small conversations with Papua New Guineans.  Praise God!

 Last week Katie, Ben, and I crossed the river by Gumi (intertube) after lunch and helped out in our language helpers garden.

Katie & Ben on Gumi

Katie & Ben on Gumi

Katie spent time “brukim giraun” (turning soil) while I learned how to “passim lo banana” (cover bananas for a greenhouse affect).  This is done by weeding out every other banana then wraping the remaining clump of bananas with big drai banana leaves.  Next, you cover this with a few garbage bags and tie it tight.  Now they will sit on the tree and grow bigger and ripen!
Brukim Giraun

Brukim Giraun

We have really enjoyed getting to know our language helper Aute and his wife, Georgina.  We are excited to be able to learn the language to the point of really being able to talk with them about life.  They have been married 10 years (like us), but have been unable to have children.  While working with Georgina in her garden, she shared with Katie their struggle with that.  Aute’s mom pressured him to get another wife (making 2 wives which is very common), but much to Georgina’s relief he did not want to.  They would talk and talk about wanting kids when Georgina decided to talk to God about her desire.  Now she says that, “God knows everything.  We do not.  I do not need to keep talking about wanting a baby, I have already asked God.”  Katie tried to explain (as best she could) that she could trust God and that He hears her. She seemed to understand and agree.

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 Please pray for them to really know their Creator God and for us to have more opportunity to be used of Him in their lives as we get to know them, their culture, and their language better.
 
 
 
       Aute and Jon
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We’re Learning “Tok Pisin”

Posted by Jon and Katie Ruse on Saturday, March 26th, 2011
 
 
 
Classtime With Aute'

Classtime With Aute'

“Em wanem (What is it)?”  It is the national language of Papua New Guinea casually now as Pidgin English

Village Exposure

Village Exposure

We have completed two weeks of learning Pidgin.  It has been very busy but also quite fun!  Thankfully, we have progressed faster than expected.  Right now Katie and I spend Monday, Wednesday, and Friday mornings in class from 8:30-12:00am.  Our teacher is a missionary from Michigan.  His wife graciously watches our kids while we are in class.   During our class time we learn a lot of vocabulary through repetition, interaction, and discussion with Aute’ (national language helper).  We also practice putting sentences together to describe things or events.  We usually have homework to review and practice what we learned in class. 

Crossing the Bridge

Crossing the Bridge

After class and a quick lunch either I (or Katie) head out with the other students (6 of us) to visit a local village for exposure, practicing what we’ve learned, and meeting people.  This usually takes around 2 hours.  My favorite so far was wading across the river and walking past giant “Mambu” (Bamboo) trees.  We also crosssed a mini suspension bridge over the river to a different village.  That was very cool!  Their are usually many people out and about, pigs wandering around in and out of the “bus” (bush), and tons of plants, flowers, gardens, etc.  On Tuesdays and Thursdays I spend most of the morning at a village learning about “daily routines” and new vocabulary so we can practice them later.

After next week our days will switch.  We will spend more time in the village (M,W,F) and less time in class (T,R).  We will begin working on

Crossing River

Crossing River

 projects like learning each step in pidgin for “mekin copi” (harvesting coffee), “wokim haus” (building a house), “kukim mumu” (preparing and cooking a special social dinner), etc.  We’d appreciate prayer as we juggle class, homework, kids, chores, and everyday life here.

Thanks for your prayers! Now you have learned a little pidgin too!

“Lukim yu” (See ya!)

 
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A Whole New World

Posted by Jon and Katie Ruse on Thursday, March 17th, 2011

Center Store

     There are many unique things about the Mission Center where we live!  First of all, there are around 250 people (70 family units) living here.  Imagine now that many of them have come at different times throughout the year and may go on furlough in 2 to 4 years depending on their circumstances.  There is a lot of turnover of personnell.  This center is the main location for all NTM operations in PNG.  There are many different ministries the missoinaries are involved in like: supply buyers, teachers, dorm parents, maintenance workers, lanaguage teachers, field leadership, administration, finances, store, shipping, medical, tech department, aviation, and more!  Not only that but many of these people are not just from the U.S. but from places like Germany, Ireland, Australia, Canada, and more.  There are also many nationals that live within a large radius of our location that work here as work merri’s, store clerks, maintenance, security, lawn-care, finances, mail room, and more.  This is a diverse culture, a whole new world and community right outside our front door to build relationships with.  While many people will come and go our unity is found in our purpose to help the gospel brought to the unreached.

     How do we go shopping?  There is a store (Open only Monday & Thursday) here on the center where we can buy many things that are difficult to find in PNG.

PMV (notice frame on left)

PMV (Public Motor Vehicle)

These items are imported and are rather expensive like cereal ($8-10 per box) (olive oil $20).  Things we would buy here (baking supplies, toiletries, laundry supplies, packaged items).  However, a can of Coke is only 80 cents and I have found Mountain Dew in town for 78 cents.  There is a small market held just outside the gate.   Many of the locals bring their fresh fruit & produce to sell to us on Mondays & Thursdays.  This food is quite in-expensive but slightly more than you would pay at the large Market in Goroka. 

     A trip to Goroka is exciting!  We can rent a vehicle from here to take in (I know have my license) or we can ride a (PMV-Public Motor Vehicle).  Granted this is one of the top ten most dangerous roads in the world.  Many people walk along the road and drivers zoom by and around.  In town there are 3 decent grocery stores with similar prices and selection compared to our store.  There is a hardware and appliance store.  There is a large open market as well as people selling things on every street.  It is always very busy and crowded in Goroka.  The open market is huge (nationals ride in to town to sell the things they’ve grown in their gardens) and prices are cheap for examples: medium tomatoes 25 cents, medium pinapples 1 dollar, huge bunch of bananas 75 cents.  In general all the fruit is delicous and full of flavor compared to the same found in the states.

Goroka Market

Goroka Market

     Their are many settlements (ghettos) of different language groups throughout town which make it a highly aggressive area.  There are certain things you have to be watchful and careful about like where you walk, park, how you carry possessions, and never leaving things unattended.  It is highly recommended that you go with someone else and that women never go to town by themselves.  As we learn the language and have been to Goroka 3 times it is becoming more comfortable.  Even though there are “rascals” around, the people in general are very friendly and kind especially to “white-skins”.  They would give you their best seat, give your kids free food to try, smile at you, etc! 

 

I hope this gives you a good picture of our “New World”

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First Moments In PNG

Posted by Jon and Katie Ruse on Monday, March 14th, 2011
Last Airplane Ride

Last Airplane Ride

As we climbed off the plane in Port Moresby we realized we were missing one carry-on.  The flight attendant helped us find it but by that time instead of being in the front we were now last in a long line to go through custums with only 1 1/2 Hours till our next flight.  Amazingly, a man came up to us and led us past everyone else to the front and quickly checked our passports and passed us through.  Next we had to get all of our luggage and pile it on two carts and head to the next line.  Again, a man moved us around the line and helped us pass everything through the scan maqchine and then onlyt peeked at a couple of our food items and passed us through.  No fees, no questions, no digging.  We were told later!  Wow, how did you make it through with jerkey and peperoni packages (that doesn’t usually happen.

After leaving the security area we were met by the New Tribes government rep who helped us check in our many bags again for the domestic flight.  Amazingly we only had to pay about $100 in overwieght charges (In Chicago a kind lady helped us shuffle our wiegth and passed many of our luggage at 5lbs. over with no extra charge (could charge $200 per bag)  As we hurried out of the international terminal onto the street three things overwhelmed us.  The heat and humidity after leaving Michigan winter behind, the beauty of the landscape like Hawaii, and the crowd of very different looking people all around us.  Finally we were able to get into the Domestic Terminal where we had to go through security again and we actually had a few minutes to sit down and buy some water which a kind Swiss Missionary helped us do. 

The final leg of the journey was beutiful as we flew accross jungle, swamps, and winding rivers.  After being in the clowds we finally descended into Goroka surrouned by lush green mountains and valleys.  The airplane landed and we stepped of onto the pavement.  We walked towards what looked like a aluminum sided barn (the airport) and then stood by a table outside where they set everyones luggage.  On the other side of the fence were many people staring but amongst them were some frineds we had already met in the states.  What a comfort!  They helped us load along with a national and we climbed into a very different type o van.  our kids were concerned about no car seats:)  Not only that but we drove on the wrong side (according to our culture) of the road and constantly had to swerve around local people.

A View from Lapillo

A view from the Highlands Region supply center

Finally arriving at the supply center for the Highlands Region (5,000ft.) we were introduced to our new home.  You can see the mountains (about 2 miles away) rise up to 9,000ft.  Geckos are on the screen windows catching bugs, flowers are in bloom, and the temperature is hot but not humid.  We were feeling exhausted but had to push through the afternoon and try to go to bed close to the new time.  It took about 4 days for us to get on the new schedule and now it feels normal.

I hope you enjoyed a taste of what our transition was like and can praise God with us for His grace and help along the way in the form of many kind people at the right moments seeing our need and doing soemthing to help.

“Our God is a ever-present help in times of trouble”

 
 
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26 Day Count Down…

Posted by Jon and Katie Ruse on Monday, March 14th, 2011

After much prayer and manyconfirmations from the Lord, we have decided to move ahead in faith.  We trust that the Lord will supply the last 17% of our monthly support budget and are excited to see how He will do that!  We have purchased one-way tickets to PNG for February 23, 2011!!!  We will leave around 12:32p.m. out of Chicago and fly for15 1/2 hours to Hong Kong.  After a 4:40 layover, we will fly another 6 3/4 hours to Port Moresby, PNG. We then will have just under 2 hours to go through PNG customs and make it onto our (much smaller) plane ride (1 hr.) into the highlands region where we will be living.  We should arrive there on Feb. 25th at 10:30a.m. PNG time.  There are a lot of mixed emotions as our days here are now numbered, but we are taking one day at a time by the Lord’s grace. 

Goodbyes are hard, but we praise the Lord that this life is not all there is to live for.  Christ’s example of leaving His “home” in heaven to come give us the gift of eternal life continues to spur us on.  We are excited to see what He will do in and through us to help reach many lives in Papua New Guinea through the ministry of dorm parenting!

Thank you to so many of you who are such an important part of this ministry as well!  Your prayers, support, love, friendship, and encouragement make a huge difference!  We could not do this without you and pray the Lord will bless you for your many sacrifices as well!

PLEASE PRAY with us about:

  1. Strength and an eternal perspective as we say goodbyes (especially to our parents/grandparents)!
  2. The Lord’s provision for approximately $750/month still needed in support.
  3. Comfort and health with so many changes to come!
  4. 26 days of time well spent before we go!
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