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CROSS-Cultural Friendships!

Posted by Jon and Katie Ruse on Friday, April 20th, 2012

It is very exciting to have a part in tribal outreach! Every time we hear an update from our dorm kid’s parents about another book of the N.T being translated, or a new teaching of God’s Word to their tribe we are reminded how the ministry as dorm parents is such an important part of the “big picture”. 

Although we primarily function as a support role for tribal missionaries, we have the opportunity to develop friendships here with our neighbors, the Bena Bena and Ungai people groups.  The two national ladies (Margret & Amo) who help us with laundry, dishes, cooking, gardening, and cleaning are a vital part of the dorm ministry.  We could not do this without them.  We work beside them, pray with them, and eat breakfast together 4 days a week. Our kids love them! However, times of miscommunication in “Pidgin” do occur (and can be stressful) as we think through different cultural views. We’ve had to learn how to work those things out and adjust to others being in our house ALL the time! Pray we can live our lives in such a way to show Christ’s love and truth to them.

While the dorm is functioning, we are not able to spend much time with other national friends.  However, we continue to stay in touch with Aute and Jogina and their extended family who live across the river. Jogina commented that there was something different about us and how we live as a family.  She thought the difference must be God and His Word.  Praise the Lord for that! She could give us no greater compliment!!! This term, their nephew was diagnosed with Appendicitis—a very dangerous thing for them if you’ve seen their “hospital”.  We were able to be a blessing to them in many ways through that difficult time, and the Lord answered prayer for healing without him having surgery!  Pray it does not reoccur.  Pray for these precious friends and their families to learn God’s truth clearly—in a way that cuts beneath the cultural chains of darkness or work based religions.

“Let your light shine before men  in such a way that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father who is in heaven.”  Matthew 5:16 NASB

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Celebrating One Year in PNG

Posted by Jon and Katie Ruse on Thursday, April 19th, 2012

Here’s some great pictures you may not have seen from our first year here in PNG…Enjoy! 

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We are so thankful for all of our friends and supporters.  Every picture, each investment in peoples souls, you have been a part of this ministry.  Thank You!

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Third Term in The Dorm

Posted by Jon and Katie Ruse on Thursday, April 19th, 2012

Dorm Girls making a Rap Video

What a whirlwind of emotions, activities, trials, and blessings!  Here’s a taste of what spun around this term… 5 birthday celebrations, our 11 year anniversary, saying good bye to our closest friends here, meeting new friends, helping a dorm daughter through a personal trial, additional meetings to help her, helping her and her sister move out of the dorm, readjusting as a dorm family, enjoying a fancy Valentine’s dinner, spoke in chapel on relationships, proudly seeing all our girls dressed in formals for Banquet and helping them get ready, 30 youth over for a movie after Banquet, many sleepovers, losing our dorm coordinators, working through cultural differences with our national house helpers, 2 motor bike accidents, Jon assistant coaching the boys Varsity Basketball team, taking video of the girl’s soccer games, helping Ellaina with her school work (as possible), helping Ben with his behavior in school, Elementary reading week (helping Ellaina and Ben read, read, read), Elementary Musical, baking with Katelyn, cuddling with Chloe (and cleaning her messes), Transitions Seminar for 11-12th graders, 3 girls making Home Ec. meals,  a trip to the Steak Haus as a dorm (a rare treat) and second hand shopping (left the store early for safety reasons), Skyped with our sending church, played Djembe for a worship service, countless mentoring opportunities, helping with Algebra, planting a garden, new twin nephews, Katie’s brothers’ engagement, a friend’s daughter getting cancer again,  a couple closer earthquakes, and a wind storm! We praise the Lord for His provision of wisdom, strength, patience, care, health, and perseverance through this term!

 

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Basketball and Dorm Parenting

Posted by Jon and Katie Ruse on Monday, January 30th, 2012
 There are certainly plenty of difficult things about dorm parenting.  Trying to spend quality time with your own kids, making meals all the time, cleaning up endlessly, always being ready to make decisions and give direction, helping with homework.

Katie & Rachel

On the other hand there are some things that are just plain fun like having a birthday party, playing in the rain, taking a group of teens tubing down the river, watching a movie, singing and dancing, cheering them on in sports, or just having a good talk.  One of those fun things Katie enjoyed this term was playing basketball with our dorm girls.  Let me explain!  We had 4 girls who were on the high school team and their only official games are during 2 tournaments.  So, in the weeks leading up to the tournaments they scrimmage the women (New Tribes moms, singles, etc.) for “practice”.

 
So Katie got to rough it up on the court with some of our girls.  Let’s just say the women definitly gave the girls some competition and Katie had a blast.  We want to praise God that her back was strong enough and continues to hold upwell now. 

Women's Team

We are excited as we look towards next term.  A few of our girls will be playing soccer and I(Jon) will be assistent coach for the guys high schoool basketball team!  The men usually play basketball every Monday night so it has been great to develop relationships with some of these teen guys that I will be coaching.  I am excited to see how God will use this avenue for me to be an example and impact some of the young teen guys here

*Pray for Katie and I that we will balance our time  & responsibilities well this next term as coaching will take extra time away from our family and the dorm!

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Christmas In Papua New Guinea

Posted by Jon and Katie Ruse on Monday, January 30th, 2012

There are certain things in life that are completely different than you ever expected.  This can be good and bad and is mostly both.  I can’t explain all of the feelings we went through over this holiday season but one thing I know for sure.  It was hard & different, but full of God’s grace. 

After a “unexpectedley” lonely thanksgiving (dorm girls were gone because Katelyn had Mumps) we pulled out our box of Christmas decorations that we had shipped over here from Michigan.  In the Dorm Storage here we found a Christmas tree, a few decorations, and a large blow-up Frosty-the-Snowman later nicknamed “Ricardo” don’t ask me why! So we started with the small decor’ around the house.  By the weekend the dorm girls were back and we put up the tree, ran lights around the porch, kitchen, and dining room.  Then I set up Frosty “Ricardo” and he was a hit around the neighborhood and became the dorm girls favorite man.  They named Him and gave Him hugs everyday.   First, strange experience:  hooking up christmas lights through a transformer, and buying some 240Volt lights off another missionary.  Second strange experience: decorating the porch outside without being cold or having numb fingers.  Next came going through the Christmas gifts we had shipped over and wrapping!  Third strange experience: not going shopping for Christmas presents, recieving Christmas gifts by mail, and wrapping some gifts from our parents for our kids! 

“Dorm Christmas” was a blast.  We had a party with snacks, gifts, and my mom’s famous “Egg Nog” made not so famous by me!  This was a taste of home but felt strange doing an early Christmas with our adopted girls before they headed home to their own families for break.  Then came time for our own very different Christmas.  Strange: the weather wasn’t snowy and cold but rainy and 70 degrees!  We “traveled” to Grandpa & Grandma Ruse’s house for Christmas eve by opening their presents under our tree while taking video and pictures.  Then Christmas morning we had our somewhat normal traditions and opening of gifts as a family.  Christmas afternoon we “hit the road again” to Papa & Grandma Jurgensen’s house by opening their gifts under our tree while skyping and talking on the phone with them and taking pictures!  It was so hard to be away from our home and family, but we are so thankful for technology.  To be able to see their faces, and talk to them and see things familiar even through the computer was a great comfort.

New Years eve we joined some other couples here for games, and then rode the motorcycle around campus at Midnight supossedly as loudly as possible!  Strange New Tradition:  however, my bike’s headlight went out right away so we went back to the house and went to bed.  Instead of watching football games and enjoying the warmth of the large Ruse Family gathering on New Years Day, I checked ESPN online to see game scores, we played wii as a family, and we skyped with my parents.  It was very cool to be able to walk around my parents house  and see everyone hanging out, see the food, see my new baby nephew, find out my sister-in-law is pregnant, go to the basement and see all my nephew’s and niece’s playing together, and feel like we were almost really there.  Strange: we are 13 hours ahead so many of these experiences with family were after we had already celebrated or the next morning!�
I don’t think I will ever forget this first Christmas away.  It was hard for us, but God is good and brought joy to our families despite the miles between us all!

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Speaking in Student Chapel

Posted by Jon and Katie Ruse on Thursday, October 27th, 2011
 
Grades 7-12 Student Chapel

Grades 7-12 Student Chapel

 It seems like such a long time since I have been able to speak to a large group of teens.  Believe it or not it has already been close to 3 and a half years since I was working at Rotbbury Community Church.  Well, this Tuesday I was able to speak at the Student Chapel for grades 7-12.  This was so much fun and God guided me in what to share, but I forgot how much time it takes to be well prepared to give a solid message.  It did not help that I was sick the week before with Strep Throat and had little energy to give.  Thankfully, I was feeling better by Moday and able to finish.

 So Tuesday was a crazy day.  We got up and made breakfast, then Katie had to rush to have all the kids ready and make it to Ellaina & Ben’s assembly while at the same time I was speaking at the High School Chapel.  She is amazing, she even managed to get a couple pictures of me in the
Speaking at Chapel

Speaking at Chapel

 midst.  Right after chapel, I had to leave (late) along with the other dorm dad and go to town for the “mail run” (every Tuesday).  While in town,  we drop off and pick up mail for everyone living here on center, then we go the open market for our dorm produce & fruit and to the stores for any needed groceries (if we are lucky) that we can’t find at the center store.   After, we get back it’s a rush to get all the produce washed, lunch prepared, eat, clean up, and then it’s time for our “Dorm Meeting” (every Tuesday afternoon).  It already looks like there are many potential students hoping to enter the dorms next year (one part of our meetings discussion).  This means we may have to cram them into two dorms, do home placements, or find another set of dorm parents and open a third dorm.  Granted there is still a lot of time before next July, and many changes will happen by then but this is definately something we would love you to pray about with us.

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First Term in the Dorm

Posted by Jon and Katie Ruse on Thursday, October 27th, 2011

Ever wonder…What is it like to have a family of twelve?  Fun, busy, loud, crazy, tons of food, not much sleep, games, family devotions, great conversations, piles of laundry, hours of homework, and great times!  We know God perfectly picked the 6 teen girls that would best fit with our family and we have truly enjoyed getting to know each of them.  Each is very unique– different needs, talents, personalities, etc. and we love each one.  We are overwhelmed with how the girls have embraced our own kids.  They love having older sisters who read them books, walk with them to school, sit by them at meals, and play with them.  This is an answer to prayer!  Along with the joys, there have been many adjustments as a family and trials along the way.  However, the Lord has been faithful to meet all of our needs and give us the energy and grace needed each day.  We praise Him for this and thank Him for your prayers on our behalf!  We couldn’t do this on our own!

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One of our highlights has been supporting the girls (4 of our 6 who played on the softball team) by going to games and tournaments.  We also watched band performances, took pictures of them doing class projects, hosted sleepovers, helped with homework, played games or baked with them, scrubbed stains, cared for the sick, shared hugs, had deep conversations about the Lord and life, and enjoyed praying together.  We love serving these girls and their families in this way!  Each girl has returned to spend time with their families in a remote tribal locations for the 2 1/2 week school break.  We are now resting, regrouping as a family, catching up on things, and looking forward to their return on October 10th.

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Easter Weekend In The Dorm

Posted by Jon and Katie Ruse on Tuesday, May 3rd, 2011
 
Dinner in The Dorm
Dinner in The Dorm

We were given the opportunity to “dorm sit” over Easter weekend.  Our whole family moved into a dorm for four nights while the current dorm parents went on a much needed family vacation.  We really enjoyed the opportunity to get to know these youth!  Due to various situations this year, the dorm was down to 3 girls and 3 guys from an original 10. However, their 6 plus our 4 made 10 kids for the weekend! 

Easter Egg Hunt

Easter Egg Hunt

 Special activities we enjoyed:

  • Thursday night we hung out late playing card games and getting to know them.
  • Friday night pizza and the movie, “Tangled”.
  • Saturday evening “get-to-know-you” games.
  • Sunday after church we enjoyed a big Easter dinner.
  • Ellaina and Katie hid Easter Eggs for the “big kids” who had a blast looking for them!
  • Then the teens hid the eggs for our kids.  I’m not sure who had more fun!
  • Sunday evening we enjoyed doing worship and dorm devotions.
  • We also ate a lot of cake, ice cream, and chocolate chip cookies!
  • Monday morning we went with half the teens on a hike up a nearby little mountain with our language helper.  This was a good opportunity for them to get out of the fence and see the community around the center. The scenery was beautiful!
  • We enjoyed a picnic lunch on the top of a grassy hillside at one of the nationals’ house and a swim in the large river after we crossed it on the way back!

    Hiking

    Hiking

We were extremely tired by Tuesday when we had to start back into our 7th week of language learning!  However, our whole family really enjoyed getting to know these teenagers and spending time with them.  Seeing the potential for lifelong relationships and the need to challenge them spiritually and prepare them for life after high school gave us a renewed passion for this ministry.  We were encouraged and grew more excited as we look forward to dorm parenting full time when school starts again in July.  Even though they are Missionary Kids (MK’s), they are just like teenagers you would find at your church and what an opportunity to disciple as you live along side them!

 

 Praise the Lord with us for:

 

  • Recovered sleep and health! 
  • Our container arriving this week!!! 
  • Language learning going well.
  • Relationships being built with nationals, fellow missionaries, and MK’s.

 Prayer Requests:

  • To grow in our ability to communicate in Pidgin.
  • Our family may spend 2 weeks in a tribe in June.  Parents of a future dorm kid work in this tribe.  Pray we will be able to build a good relationship with them.
  • Tim and Kerri Shepherd (Her back has kept her down for the past 2 months. They are needed for the other dorm in July!  Pray the Lord strengthens and heals her back and directs them for the future. We’d love to work with them, Lord willing!)
  • Wisdom as we continue with dorm orientation.
  • For the Lord to place the individuals HE would like in our dorm next year.
  • Pray we will have intimate time with the Lord and that He will make us into the parents and people He wants us to be.
  • Time for Jon and I as it is hard to “get out” together in this kind of setting.

 THANK YOU all for your prayers, encouragement, and support!  We truly saw God’s hand on our weekend! YOU are a vital part of this ministry and we praise God for you!!

 

 

 

 

 
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Adventures In Langauge Learning!

Posted by Jon and Katie Ruse on Thursday, April 14th, 2011
 
 
Passim Lo Banana

Passim Lo Banana

 If you thought bananas grew good and ripe on their own, then think again!  Have you ever wondered how grass huts were made or how to start a fire without matches?  Maybe you’ve wondered how coffee was grown or prepared.
 
 

Drying Coffee

Drying Coffee

 These are just a few of the many things we have done or observed recently. Our goal is to be able to describe or tell someone what we did using Pidgin.  This means taking pictures, recording stories, piecing it all together afterwards and practicing.  It is amazing how quickly you learn this way with a lot of exposure, interaction, and visual aid.  It is now our fifth week of language study and we feel like we can carry on small conversations with Papua New Guineans.  Praise God!

 Last week Katie, Ben, and I crossed the river by Gumi (intertube) after lunch and helped out in our language helpers garden.

Katie & Ben on Gumi

Katie & Ben on Gumi

Katie spent time “brukim giraun” (turning soil) while I learned how to “passim lo banana” (cover bananas for a greenhouse affect).  This is done by weeding out every other banana then wraping the remaining clump of bananas with big drai banana leaves.  Next, you cover this with a few garbage bags and tie it tight.  Now they will sit on the tree and grow bigger and ripen!
Brukim Giraun

Brukim Giraun

We have really enjoyed getting to know our language helper Aute and his wife, Georgina.  We are excited to be able to learn the language to the point of really being able to talk with them about life.  They have been married 10 years (like us), but have been unable to have children.  While working with Georgina in her garden, she shared with Katie their struggle with that.  Aute’s mom pressured him to get another wife (making 2 wives which is very common), but much to Georgina’s relief he did not want to.  They would talk and talk about wanting kids when Georgina decided to talk to God about her desire.  Now she says that, “God knows everything.  We do not.  I do not need to keep talking about wanting a baby, I have already asked God.”  Katie tried to explain (as best she could) that she could trust God and that He hears her. She seemed to understand and agree.

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 Please pray for them to really know their Creator God and for us to have more opportunity to be used of Him in their lives as we get to know them, their culture, and their language better.
 
 
 
       Aute and Jon
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We’re Learning “Tok Pisin”

Posted by Jon and Katie Ruse on Saturday, March 26th, 2011
 
 
 
Classtime With Aute'

Classtime With Aute'

“Em wanem (What is it)?”  It is the national language of Papua New Guinea casually now as Pidgin English

Village Exposure

Village Exposure

We have completed two weeks of learning Pidgin.  It has been very busy but also quite fun!  Thankfully, we have progressed faster than expected.  Right now Katie and I spend Monday, Wednesday, and Friday mornings in class from 8:30-12:00am.  Our teacher is a missionary from Michigan.  His wife graciously watches our kids while we are in class.   During our class time we learn a lot of vocabulary through repetition, interaction, and discussion with Aute’ (national language helper).  We also practice putting sentences together to describe things or events.  We usually have homework to review and practice what we learned in class. 

Crossing the Bridge

Crossing the Bridge

After class and a quick lunch either I (or Katie) head out with the other students (6 of us) to visit a local village for exposure, practicing what we’ve learned, and meeting people.  This usually takes around 2 hours.  My favorite so far was wading across the river and walking past giant “Mambu” (Bamboo) trees.  We also crosssed a mini suspension bridge over the river to a different village.  That was very cool!  Their are usually many people out and about, pigs wandering around in and out of the “bus” (bush), and tons of plants, flowers, gardens, etc.  On Tuesdays and Thursdays I spend most of the morning at a village learning about “daily routines” and new vocabulary so we can practice them later.

After next week our days will switch.  We will spend more time in the village (M,W,F) and less time in class (T,R).  We will begin working on

Crossing River

Crossing River

 projects like learning each step in pidgin for “mekin copi” (harvesting coffee), “wokim haus” (building a house), “kukim mumu” (preparing and cooking a special social dinner), etc.  We’d appreciate prayer as we juggle class, homework, kids, chores, and everyday life here.

Thanks for your prayers! Now you have learned a little pidgin too!

“Lukim yu” (See ya!)

 
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