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Where Is Home?

Posted by Jon and Katie Ruse on Tuesday, May 7th, 2013

“All I know is I’m not home yet, this is not where I belong.  Take this world, but give me Jesus, this is not where I belong” (Building 429).

This has been our theme song over the past 2 months.  We moved out of our PNG home into a guest house, then out of the guest house to fly back to America with our belongings packed into 13 luggage and 6 carry-ons.  Next, we moved into my parents house and went through our old stored belongings then repacked to move to Katie’s parents’ house where we will live for the next 6 or 7 months.  After a few short days we were unpacked, the kids were getting used to their rooms, but the rain was steady.  It proved to be too much for many people in Michigan who don’t normally have problems with flooding.  We had to move the 3 girls out of their room due to water seepage and began moving and cleaning everything on the lower level (bedroom, living room, office).  After we were able to get everything dried out we moved everything back for a couple days only to determine it still needed some cleaning.  We moved everyone and everything out again and had someone come in to professionally dry things out.  Today we will clean the carpet and hopefully begin moving everyone back.  Chloe who is nearing 4yrs. old has said a number of times “I want to sleep there” because right now she is in the baby’s crib.

In the midst of these transitions the past few weeks and an uncertain future, God has been reminding us through many different ways of the great future home and hope that we have in Him!  “May the God of HOPE fill you with all joy and peace in believing, so that by the power of the Holy Spirit you may abound in HOPE”. (Romans 13:13)  We are clinging to this truth as we anticipate more transition within the year before we are settled into a new ministry.  Right now, we are focused on the purpose of our home assignment.   

What is the purpose of Home Assignment?

  • Maternity Leave (To prepare, visit the doctor, have the baby, care for the babies needs)
  • Partnership Development (Touching base with supporters and churches)
  • This includes; phone calls, emails, personal visits, and church presentation to share what God has accomplished through our ministry in PNG, to regain lost support, and to share about our future ministry.
  • Refreshment (Personal vacation time and with family, doctors appointments for needs not met while in PNG, etc.)
  • It is important that our supporters continue giving during this time while we are still employed by NTM.  It is not intended that we find another job to raise funds as this would restrict us from fulfilling those purposes.

Since returning we have had opportunities to share at churches, visit family members and friends, join a welcome home party, catch up on eye doctor and O.B. appointments, find a pediatrician, go shopping to replace items we could not bring back from PNG, have family time, and even enjoy a getaway for Katie and I before the baby comes.

As the Lord has reminded us of the hope we have in him, no matter what the future holds, we have found joy and refreshment as a family even in the midst of constant change.  Thank you for praying and supporting us!

 

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Rest In The Midst of Chaos

Posted by Jon and Katie Ruse on Friday, February 1st, 2013

To say things have been a little crazy the past few weeks would be an understatement.  It was so great to have Savannah come back into the dorm to join Jen & Scarlett.  She was in and out for the first week becaue her mom was here for meetings.  Now Savannah’s mom has gone back to the islands area of PNG where their tribal work is.

Sweet Sisters

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We have been working hard that last few weeks sorting all of our belongings and getting ready for a yard sale.  The sale went really well and this will help towards replacing some items when we are back in the states.  We still have a lot of larger things to sell that will have to wait until right before we leave; (lamps, T.V., keyboard, kitchen items, matresses, etc.)  We also have a large list of cleaning requirements to work through before we can leave the house.  Hopefully we will have a lot of help our last few days here to finsish these things.

This week has provided a bit of rest as I underwent minor surgery at the medical clinic here.  I have had to rest for the last few days.  Katie is hanging in there and trying to stay off her feet as much as possible but also fighting a cold.  The dorm girls have been a big help while I am not able:)

Jen & Scarlett are playing soccer.  They’ve had more conditioning than they would like too:)  The guys are playing basketball.  Both teams have there first “scrimmage” games this week.  In a few more weeks they will start with sports tournaments.

I will be speaking in High School Chapel next Wednesday and then in March I will be doing a “Youth Ministry Workshop” for a high school career day.  I am excited for these opportunities to inspire other young people into ministry.  Last night we I had a great bible study with my high school guys small group.  We have been working through 2 Timothy & Titus about what it means to be a leader!  I love it.

God is faithful!   We have all of our appointments lined up for when we get back to the states.  God has provided funds for some of our future needs through a number of generous gifts and we say thank you.  We give Him all the praise and thank you for each of your support as we follow Him.

 

 

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So Good To See Family

Posted by Jon and Katie Ruse on Tuesday, October 23rd, 2012

Family Photo in PNGIt’s hard to express how comforting it was to finally see family for the first time since leaving the airport over 18 months ago.  There is no way to truly describe the everyday chores, the culture, the struggles, and the joys of living here in PNG until you experience them for yourself.  My parents were able to get a taste of that and next time we talk I know they will understand in a way others can’t.  Our kid’s ate up every moment between stories form grandma, sowing doll clothes, making Christmas Frogs, and playing ball with grandpa, it was a treasure they won’t forget.

It took a while for my parents to adjust to the time difference.  We had to keep them awake the first few days.  My dad came to town with me three times on mail runs and got to experience the postal services of PNG, the muddy food market, and the meager stores.  His comments were; It’s a lot filthier than I imagined, I can’t believe a pig just walked past me through the produce, there are so many people!  Mom got to experience shopping at our little community store with Katie and meet PNG ladies at the mini market outside our gate.  As my parents adjusted to life here and my dad enjoyed excellent PNG coffee they were able to help out with things like cooking a few meals for us, giving us a date, helping with laundry etc. and that was a big blessing.Ocean At Resort

One of the highlights of our time together was our trip to Madang Province.  It definitely had ups and downs (literally).  We piled the 8 of us into the Land Cruiser with our luggage and food and headed out.  One hour later, we stopped and attended Kafe’ Church (planted by Jen’s parents) where I was asked to share my testimony in Pidgin.  We got to see her family’s house and it was a wonderful experience.   Time to get back on the road, however, what should have taken another 5 hours ended up taking 7 because I missed our turn.  In the end we made it just at dark with no safety problems along the whole trip.  It was brutal, bumpy, fast and slow so we were all relieved to get there.  Our rooms were not what we expected and not prepared for us, the pool was closed for repairs, and the flu arrived with us, joy!  Thankfully we were all able to have a lot of fun anyway and enjoy the most beautiful ocean I have ever seen.  Katie and I were able to Kayak and snorkel around the coral reef while my parents watched the kids (It was amazing).   Dad, Ellaina, Ben, and I also got to go on a fishing trip out on the deep ocean.  It was scary with the huge waves and small boat but we were able to catch 6 Tuna and lose a few.  They tasted delicious grilled!  We also ate an amazing Fish & Chips lunch in town, did some shopping, and tried to beat Mom at Rummy a few times!  The trip back only took 5 hours total but was just as brutal, leaving everyone with bumps and bruises.Kafe' Church

Another highlight was taking my parents to visit the village across the road and have a special PNG meal with our friends there.  Mom & Dad survived crossing the river and enjoyed the cultural experience.  In fact, one little boy took to my dad like a grandpa which is very unusual for the PNG kids who are usual scared of white people.

Dad also helped me with fixing the Quad, spoke at ABWE’s Bible College through a translator, and spoke for a Sunday Service here in our community.  In the end, it was very hard to say goodbye even though we knew we will see them again in five months.  They were very surprised when we shared that they were going to have grandbaby #21.  It was great to be able to share this in person and talk about the future.  Thank you, mom and dad so much for taking the time and money to visit us in PNG.  We will never forget it!  Check out all the pics in our photo album!

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A Small Dorm Family

Posted by Jon and Katie Ruse on Saturday, September 22nd, 2012

If you stood on our front porch and looked inside on any given night what might you see?  Uncle Jon, Aunt Katie, Jen, & Scarlett playing an intense game of Dutch Blitz until bedtime.  Jen reading a bible story to Benjamin before He is ready to be tucked in.

Dorm Sisters

Scarlett reading a story with our 4 kids climbing all over her.  A whole family singing praise songs and sharing a devotional together.   Fun music playing while everyone helps by washing dishes, wiping the table, putting away food, and sweeping the floor.  Jen, Scarlet, and friends working on a homework project or watching a movie together.  Everyone drooling over a fresh plate of homemade cookies, and then the best part…eating them!

Evening Chores

When we first looked at the prospect of having a small dorm it was hard to embrace.  We believed the Lord brought us here to be Dorm Parents and we wanted to have the greatest impact possible.  Logically, we thought that greater impact would come through having more dorm kid’s in our home.  God always knows best!  Katie and I couldn’t have imagined being this close to Jen and Scarlett.  There is a mutual respect and trust shared between us that makes parenting a joy.  We truly feel like a family together and we have been so blessed by how Jen & Scarlett have sought to be involved in our lives.  We enjoyed when all (8 of us) went down to the softball field together and played a game, and appreciated when Jen and Scarlett watched and played with our kids while we attended a school staff meeting.

Who Says Dishes Aren't Fun

God has given us many opportunities both in an outside the dorm!  We know this is the great impact we were hoping for.  Check out our album of First Term 2012 pictures.

 

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Australian Adventures

Posted by Jon and Katie Ruse on Saturday, July 28th, 2012

It all started with a “private” flight across the Great Barrier Reef.  Well maybe that’s exaggerating a little.  We flew in a small NTM plane from Goroka to Port Moresby to Cairns, Australia along with another missionary family.  We could see the beautiful coral reefs a few times out the windows.  We really enjoyed the simplicity of international travel with NTM because on our way back from Australia we flew with Air New Guinea.  After about the 6th security check, wieghing and transfering bags, waiting in lines, filling out forms, and a flight delay we were sure thankful for how easy we had it before.

We stayed at a beautiful small resort run by Wyclife & MAF missions.  The kids loved playing in the pool.  Katie enjoyed the freedom to walk around town by herself.  There was a small fish pond the kid’s loved hanging around as well as stories of a 10-12 foot python recently visiting, sunning himself, and possibly eating one of the large godlfish.  In fact, some of the things we enjoyed most may surprise you

Tree Tops Lodge Pool

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Food Items: packaged potato chips, pre-cut chicken breasts you could just throw right on the grill with no prep, lunchmeat (we had sandwiches almost everyday), healthy bread, blueberries, cherries, kiwi, pre-made salads we didn’t have to wash, sanitize, and prepare, McDonald’s (especially their 30 cent ice cream cones), coffe shops, Pizza Hut & Dominoes specials, and so much more.

Activities: driving anywhere (without having to avoid people, animals, and ruts), walking without concern for safety or robbery, being around white poeple and not being stared at, going somewhere when you want to (drive to the ocean and swim, going hiking, go rent a movie), escalators (chloe was scared at first), swimming in clean swiming pools and not being afraid to use public restrooms.  Shopping in three different malls, many specialty stores and shops, and huge grocery stores with more than one brand of any particular item.

Ok, so maybe we didn’t realize how much culture shock we face in PNG.  However, we did enjoy many things you would expect us to in Australia.  We rode a train up into the rainforest, saw waterfalls, hiked, toured little shops, even got fresh candy made right before our eyes, and came back down in a cable car over the top of the rianforest with the ocean in view.  We saw Kangeroos and many other creatures in the wild.  We swam in the ocean (the kids didn’t like the taste).  We went on a crocodile adventure with a live show and feedings, and many other australian animals (Katie’s favorite is the Kukaburra; a bird that sounds kinda like a monkey howling or laughing).

We were also able to get many needs met; Katie, Ellaina, and I were thankful for back adjustments, Ellaina got two pair of glasses, office supplies, a replacement music player, clothes, future Christmas and birthday presents, etc.

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Ruse Family News

Posted by Jon and Katie Ruse on Saturday, July 28th, 2012

Ellaina graduated from 3rd grade and was commended for her hard work and great attitude! She got an A in Science—her favorite subject!  Pray for the Lord to fill her heart with love for Him and others!

Ellaina, Katelyn, Aslan

Ben graduated from 1st grade!  He is so good to his sisters and a great helper at home!  However, he has really struggled with some things here & with missing home. Pray the Lord will draw him to Himself & for Ben’s integrity.

Dad and Ben Grilling

Katelyn has moved into Chloe’s room and loves her top bunk!  They are so sweet together!  Pray for her to clearly understand what Jesus did for her!

Chloe greets all the nationals and even understands a lot of Pidgin.  At home, she loves to put things back where they belong—what a blessing!  Pray we can potty-train her soon and for safety with her no fear mentality.

Katie’s brother got married in May!  We praise the Lord for this blessing!  It’s hard to be away during this time, but the Lord has given us a peace knowing He will provide time with them later.

Ellaina and Chloe

Our family has taken a couple weeks to readjust after dorm life. Besides the stress of the dorm ministry, the logistics of the center make it hard to have privacy or protected family time.  We are excited for time in Cairns, Australia!  Pray for us to keep strong bonds with our kids, to be consistent with them through all the transitions & interruptions, & to point them to the Lord with our time & example!

Aslan is our new kitten!

 

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Christmas In Papua New Guinea

Posted by Jon and Katie Ruse on Monday, January 30th, 2012

There are certain things in life that are completely different than you ever expected.  This can be good and bad and is mostly both.  I can’t explain all of the feelings we went through over this holiday season but one thing I know for sure.  It was hard & different, but full of God’s grace. 

After a “unexpectedley” lonely thanksgiving (dorm girls were gone because Katelyn had Mumps) we pulled out our box of Christmas decorations that we had shipped over here from Michigan.  In the Dorm Storage here we found a Christmas tree, a few decorations, and a large blow-up Frosty-the-Snowman later nicknamed “Ricardo” don’t ask me why! So we started with the small decor’ around the house.  By the weekend the dorm girls were back and we put up the tree, ran lights around the porch, kitchen, and dining room.  Then I set up Frosty “Ricardo” and he was a hit around the neighborhood and became the dorm girls favorite man.  They named Him and gave Him hugs everyday.   First, strange experience:  hooking up christmas lights through a transformer, and buying some 240Volt lights off another missionary.  Second strange experience: decorating the porch outside without being cold or having numb fingers.  Next came going through the Christmas gifts we had shipped over and wrapping!  Third strange experience: not going shopping for Christmas presents, recieving Christmas gifts by mail, and wrapping some gifts from our parents for our kids! 

“Dorm Christmas” was a blast.  We had a party with snacks, gifts, and my mom’s famous “Egg Nog” made not so famous by me!  This was a taste of home but felt strange doing an early Christmas with our adopted girls before they headed home to their own families for break.  Then came time for our own very different Christmas.  Strange: the weather wasn’t snowy and cold but rainy and 70 degrees!  We “traveled” to Grandpa & Grandma Ruse’s house for Christmas eve by opening their presents under our tree while taking video and pictures.  Then Christmas morning we had our somewhat normal traditions and opening of gifts as a family.  Christmas afternoon we “hit the road again” to Papa & Grandma Jurgensen’s house by opening their gifts under our tree while skyping and talking on the phone with them and taking pictures!  It was so hard to be away from our home and family, but we are so thankful for technology.  To be able to see their faces, and talk to them and see things familiar even through the computer was a great comfort.

New Years eve we joined some other couples here for games, and then rode the motorcycle around campus at Midnight supossedly as loudly as possible!  Strange New Tradition:  however, my bike’s headlight went out right away so we went back to the house and went to bed.  Instead of watching football games and enjoying the warmth of the large Ruse Family gathering on New Years Day, I checked ESPN online to see game scores, we played wii as a family, and we skyped with my parents.  It was very cool to be able to walk around my parents house  and see everyone hanging out, see the food, see my new baby nephew, find out my sister-in-law is pregnant, go to the basement and see all my nephew’s and niece’s playing together, and feel like we were almost really there.  Strange: we are 13 hours ahead so many of these experiences with family were after we had already celebrated or the next morning!�
I don’t think I will ever forget this first Christmas away.  It was hard for us, but God is good and brought joy to our families despite the miles between us all!

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A Whole New World

Posted by Jon and Katie Ruse on Thursday, March 17th, 2011

Center Store

     There are many unique things about the Mission Center where we live!  First of all, there are around 250 people (70 family units) living here.  Imagine now that many of them have come at different times throughout the year and may go on furlough in 2 to 4 years depending on their circumstances.  There is a lot of turnover of personnell.  This center is the main location for all NTM operations in PNG.  There are many different ministries the missoinaries are involved in like: supply buyers, teachers, dorm parents, maintenance workers, lanaguage teachers, field leadership, administration, finances, store, shipping, medical, tech department, aviation, and more!  Not only that but many of these people are not just from the U.S. but from places like Germany, Ireland, Australia, Canada, and more.  There are also many nationals that live within a large radius of our location that work here as work merri’s, store clerks, maintenance, security, lawn-care, finances, mail room, and more.  This is a diverse culture, a whole new world and community right outside our front door to build relationships with.  While many people will come and go our unity is found in our purpose to help the gospel brought to the unreached.

     How do we go shopping?  There is a store (Open only Monday & Thursday) here on the center where we can buy many things that are difficult to find in PNG.

PMV (notice frame on left)

PMV (Public Motor Vehicle)

These items are imported and are rather expensive like cereal ($8-10 per box) (olive oil $20).  Things we would buy here (baking supplies, toiletries, laundry supplies, packaged items).  However, a can of Coke is only 80 cents and I have found Mountain Dew in town for 78 cents.  There is a small market held just outside the gate.   Many of the locals bring their fresh fruit & produce to sell to us on Mondays & Thursdays.  This food is quite in-expensive but slightly more than you would pay at the large Market in Goroka. 

     A trip to Goroka is exciting!  We can rent a vehicle from here to take in (I know have my license) or we can ride a (PMV-Public Motor Vehicle).  Granted this is one of the top ten most dangerous roads in the world.  Many people walk along the road and drivers zoom by and around.  In town there are 3 decent grocery stores with similar prices and selection compared to our store.  There is a hardware and appliance store.  There is a large open market as well as people selling things on every street.  It is always very busy and crowded in Goroka.  The open market is huge (nationals ride in to town to sell the things they’ve grown in their gardens) and prices are cheap for examples: medium tomatoes 25 cents, medium pinapples 1 dollar, huge bunch of bananas 75 cents.  In general all the fruit is delicous and full of flavor compared to the same found in the states.

Goroka Market

Goroka Market

     Their are many settlements (ghettos) of different language groups throughout town which make it a highly aggressive area.  There are certain things you have to be watchful and careful about like where you walk, park, how you carry possessions, and never leaving things unattended.  It is highly recommended that you go with someone else and that women never go to town by themselves.  As we learn the language and have been to Goroka 3 times it is becoming more comfortable.  Even though there are “rascals” around, the people in general are very friendly and kind especially to “white-skins”.  They would give you their best seat, give your kids free food to try, smile at you, etc! 

 

I hope this gives you a good picture of our “New World”

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First Moments In PNG

Posted by Jon and Katie Ruse on Monday, March 14th, 2011
Last Airplane Ride

Last Airplane Ride

As we climbed off the plane in Port Moresby we realized we were missing one carry-on.  The flight attendant helped us find it but by that time instead of being in the front we were now last in a long line to go through custums with only 1 1/2 Hours till our next flight.  Amazingly, a man came up to us and led us past everyone else to the front and quickly checked our passports and passed us through.  Next we had to get all of our luggage and pile it on two carts and head to the next line.  Again, a man moved us around the line and helped us pass everything through the scan maqchine and then onlyt peeked at a couple of our food items and passed us through.  No fees, no questions, no digging.  We were told later!  Wow, how did you make it through with jerkey and peperoni packages (that doesn’t usually happen.

After leaving the security area we were met by the New Tribes government rep who helped us check in our many bags again for the domestic flight.  Amazingly we only had to pay about $100 in overwieght charges (In Chicago a kind lady helped us shuffle our wiegth and passed many of our luggage at 5lbs. over with no extra charge (could charge $200 per bag)  As we hurried out of the international terminal onto the street three things overwhelmed us.  The heat and humidity after leaving Michigan winter behind, the beauty of the landscape like Hawaii, and the crowd of very different looking people all around us.  Finally we were able to get into the Domestic Terminal where we had to go through security again and we actually had a few minutes to sit down and buy some water which a kind Swiss Missionary helped us do. 

The final leg of the journey was beutiful as we flew accross jungle, swamps, and winding rivers.  After being in the clowds we finally descended into Goroka surrouned by lush green mountains and valleys.  The airplane landed and we stepped of onto the pavement.  We walked towards what looked like a aluminum sided barn (the airport) and then stood by a table outside where they set everyones luggage.  On the other side of the fence were many people staring but amongst them were some frineds we had already met in the states.  What a comfort!  They helped us load along with a national and we climbed into a very different type o van.  our kids were concerned about no car seats:)  Not only that but we drove on the wrong side (according to our culture) of the road and constantly had to swerve around local people.

A View from Lapillo

A view from the Highlands Region supply center

Finally arriving at the supply center for the Highlands Region (5,000ft.) we were introduced to our new home.  You can see the mountains (about 2 miles away) rise up to 9,000ft.  Geckos are on the screen windows catching bugs, flowers are in bloom, and the temperature is hot but not humid.  We were feeling exhausted but had to push through the afternoon and try to go to bed close to the new time.  It took about 4 days for us to get on the new schedule and now it feels normal.

I hope you enjoyed a taste of what our transition was like and can praise God with us for His grace and help along the way in the form of many kind people at the right moments seeing our need and doing soemthing to help.

“Our God is a ever-present help in times of trouble”

 
 
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26 Day Count Down…

Posted by Jon and Katie Ruse on Monday, March 14th, 2011

After much prayer and manyconfirmations from the Lord, we have decided to move ahead in faith.  We trust that the Lord will supply the last 17% of our monthly support budget and are excited to see how He will do that!  We have purchased one-way tickets to PNG for February 23, 2011!!!  We will leave around 12:32p.m. out of Chicago and fly for15 1/2 hours to Hong Kong.  After a 4:40 layover, we will fly another 6 3/4 hours to Port Moresby, PNG. We then will have just under 2 hours to go through PNG customs and make it onto our (much smaller) plane ride (1 hr.) into the highlands region where we will be living.  We should arrive there on Feb. 25th at 10:30a.m. PNG time.  There are a lot of mixed emotions as our days here are now numbered, but we are taking one day at a time by the Lord’s grace. 

Goodbyes are hard, but we praise the Lord that this life is not all there is to live for.  Christ’s example of leaving His “home” in heaven to come give us the gift of eternal life continues to spur us on.  We are excited to see what He will do in and through us to help reach many lives in Papua New Guinea through the ministry of dorm parenting!

Thank you to so many of you who are such an important part of this ministry as well!  Your prayers, support, love, friendship, and encouragement make a huge difference!  We could not do this without you and pray the Lord will bless you for your many sacrifices as well!

PLEASE PRAY with us about:

  1. Strength and an eternal perspective as we say goodbyes (especially to our parents/grandparents)!
  2. The Lord’s provision for approximately $750/month still needed in support.
  3. Comfort and health with so many changes to come!
  4. 26 days of time well spent before we go!
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