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Christmas In Papua New Guinea

Posted by Jon and Katie Ruse on Monday, January 30th, 2012

There are certain things in life that are completely different than you ever expected.  This can be good and bad and is mostly both.  I can’t explain all of the feelings we went through over this holiday season but one thing I know for sure.  It was hard & different, but full of God’s grace. 

After a “unexpectedley” lonely thanksgiving (dorm girls were gone because Katelyn had Mumps) we pulled out our box of Christmas decorations that we had shipped over here from Michigan.  In the Dorm Storage here we found a Christmas tree, a few decorations, and a large blow-up Frosty-the-Snowman later nicknamed “Ricardo” don’t ask me why! So we started with the small decor’ around the house.  By the weekend the dorm girls were back and we put up the tree, ran lights around the porch, kitchen, and dining room.  Then I set up Frosty “Ricardo” and he was a hit around the neighborhood and became the dorm girls favorite man.  They named Him and gave Him hugs everyday.   First, strange experience:  hooking up christmas lights through a transformer, and buying some 240Volt lights off another missionary.  Second strange experience: decorating the porch outside without being cold or having numb fingers.  Next came going through the Christmas gifts we had shipped over and wrapping!  Third strange experience: not going shopping for Christmas presents, recieving Christmas gifts by mail, and wrapping some gifts from our parents for our kids! 

“Dorm Christmas” was a blast.  We had a party with snacks, gifts, and my mom’s famous “Egg Nog” made not so famous by me!  This was a taste of home but felt strange doing an early Christmas with our adopted girls before they headed home to their own families for break.  Then came time for our own very different Christmas.  Strange: the weather wasn’t snowy and cold but rainy and 70 degrees!  We “traveled” to Grandpa & Grandma Ruse’s house for Christmas eve by opening their presents under our tree while taking video and pictures.  Then Christmas morning we had our somewhat normal traditions and opening of gifts as a family.  Christmas afternoon we “hit the road again” to Papa & Grandma Jurgensen’s house by opening their gifts under our tree while skyping and talking on the phone with them and taking pictures!  It was so hard to be away from our home and family, but we are so thankful for technology.  To be able to see their faces, and talk to them and see things familiar even through the computer was a great comfort.

New Years eve we joined some other couples here for games, and then rode the motorcycle around campus at Midnight supossedly as loudly as possible!  Strange New Tradition:  however, my bike’s headlight went out right away so we went back to the house and went to bed.  Instead of watching football games and enjoying the warmth of the large Ruse Family gathering on New Years Day, I checked ESPN online to see game scores, we played wii as a family, and we skyped with my parents.  It was very cool to be able to walk around my parents house  and see everyone hanging out, see the food, see my new baby nephew, find out my sister-in-law is pregnant, go to the basement and see all my nephew’s and niece’s playing together, and feel like we were almost really there.  Strange: we are 13 hours ahead so many of these experiences with family were after we had already celebrated or the next morning!�
I don’t think I will ever forget this first Christmas away.  It was hard for us, but God is good and brought joy to our families despite the miles between us all!

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A Whole New World

Posted by Jon and Katie Ruse on Thursday, March 17th, 2011

Center Store

     There are many unique things about the Mission Center where we live!  First of all, there are around 250 people (70 family units) living here.  Imagine now that many of them have come at different times throughout the year and may go on furlough in 2 to 4 years depending on their circumstances.  There is a lot of turnover of personnell.  This center is the main location for all NTM operations in PNG.  There are many different ministries the missoinaries are involved in like: supply buyers, teachers, dorm parents, maintenance workers, lanaguage teachers, field leadership, administration, finances, store, shipping, medical, tech department, aviation, and more!  Not only that but many of these people are not just from the U.S. but from places like Germany, Ireland, Australia, Canada, and more.  There are also many nationals that live within a large radius of our location that work here as work merri’s, store clerks, maintenance, security, lawn-care, finances, mail room, and more.  This is a diverse culture, a whole new world and community right outside our front door to build relationships with.  While many people will come and go our unity is found in our purpose to help the gospel brought to the unreached.

     How do we go shopping?  There is a store (Open only Monday & Thursday) here on the center where we can buy many things that are difficult to find in PNG.

PMV (notice frame on left)

PMV (Public Motor Vehicle)

These items are imported and are rather expensive like cereal ($8-10 per box) (olive oil $20).  Things we would buy here (baking supplies, toiletries, laundry supplies, packaged items).  However, a can of Coke is only 80 cents and I have found Mountain Dew in town for 78 cents.  There is a small market held just outside the gate.   Many of the locals bring their fresh fruit & produce to sell to us on Mondays & Thursdays.  This food is quite in-expensive but slightly more than you would pay at the large Market in Goroka. 

     A trip to Goroka is exciting!  We can rent a vehicle from here to take in (I know have my license) or we can ride a (PMV-Public Motor Vehicle).  Granted this is one of the top ten most dangerous roads in the world.  Many people walk along the road and drivers zoom by and around.  In town there are 3 decent grocery stores with similar prices and selection compared to our store.  There is a hardware and appliance store.  There is a large open market as well as people selling things on every street.  It is always very busy and crowded in Goroka.  The open market is huge (nationals ride in to town to sell the things they’ve grown in their gardens) and prices are cheap for examples: medium tomatoes 25 cents, medium pinapples 1 dollar, huge bunch of bananas 75 cents.  In general all the fruit is delicous and full of flavor compared to the same found in the states.

Goroka Market

Goroka Market

     Their are many settlements (ghettos) of different language groups throughout town which make it a highly aggressive area.  There are certain things you have to be watchful and careful about like where you walk, park, how you carry possessions, and never leaving things unattended.  It is highly recommended that you go with someone else and that women never go to town by themselves.  As we learn the language and have been to Goroka 3 times it is becoming more comfortable.  Even though there are “rascals” around, the people in general are very friendly and kind especially to “white-skins”.  They would give you their best seat, give your kids free food to try, smile at you, etc! 

 

I hope this gives you a good picture of our “New World”

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First Moments In PNG

Posted by Jon and Katie Ruse on Monday, March 14th, 2011
Last Airplane Ride

Last Airplane Ride

As we climbed off the plane in Port Moresby we realized we were missing one carry-on.  The flight attendant helped us find it but by that time instead of being in the front we were now last in a long line to go through custums with only 1 1/2 Hours till our next flight.  Amazingly, a man came up to us and led us past everyone else to the front and quickly checked our passports and passed us through.  Next we had to get all of our luggage and pile it on two carts and head to the next line.  Again, a man moved us around the line and helped us pass everything through the scan maqchine and then onlyt peeked at a couple of our food items and passed us through.  No fees, no questions, no digging.  We were told later!  Wow, how did you make it through with jerkey and peperoni packages (that doesn’t usually happen.

After leaving the security area we were met by the New Tribes government rep who helped us check in our many bags again for the domestic flight.  Amazingly we only had to pay about $100 in overwieght charges (In Chicago a kind lady helped us shuffle our wiegth and passed many of our luggage at 5lbs. over with no extra charge (could charge $200 per bag)  As we hurried out of the international terminal onto the street three things overwhelmed us.  The heat and humidity after leaving Michigan winter behind, the beauty of the landscape like Hawaii, and the crowd of very different looking people all around us.  Finally we were able to get into the Domestic Terminal where we had to go through security again and we actually had a few minutes to sit down and buy some water which a kind Swiss Missionary helped us do. 

The final leg of the journey was beutiful as we flew accross jungle, swamps, and winding rivers.  After being in the clowds we finally descended into Goroka surrouned by lush green mountains and valleys.  The airplane landed and we stepped of onto the pavement.  We walked towards what looked like a aluminum sided barn (the airport) and then stood by a table outside where they set everyones luggage.  On the other side of the fence were many people staring but amongst them were some frineds we had already met in the states.  What a comfort!  They helped us load along with a national and we climbed into a very different type o van.  our kids were concerned about no car seats:)  Not only that but we drove on the wrong side (according to our culture) of the road and constantly had to swerve around local people.

A View from Lapillo

A view from the Highlands Region supply center

Finally arriving at the supply center for the Highlands Region (5,000ft.) we were introduced to our new home.  You can see the mountains (about 2 miles away) rise up to 9,000ft.  Geckos are on the screen windows catching bugs, flowers are in bloom, and the temperature is hot but not humid.  We were feeling exhausted but had to push through the afternoon and try to go to bed close to the new time.  It took about 4 days for us to get on the new schedule and now it feels normal.

I hope you enjoyed a taste of what our transition was like and can praise God with us for His grace and help along the way in the form of many kind people at the right moments seeing our need and doing soemthing to help.

“Our God is a ever-present help in times of trouble”

 
 
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26 Day Count Down…

Posted by Jon and Katie Ruse on Monday, March 14th, 2011

After much prayer and manyconfirmations from the Lord, we have decided to move ahead in faith.  We trust that the Lord will supply the last 17% of our monthly support budget and are excited to see how He will do that!  We have purchased one-way tickets to PNG for February 23, 2011!!!  We will leave around 12:32p.m. out of Chicago and fly for15 1/2 hours to Hong Kong.  After a 4:40 layover, we will fly another 6 3/4 hours to Port Moresby, PNG. We then will have just under 2 hours to go through PNG customs and make it onto our (much smaller) plane ride (1 hr.) into the highlands region where we will be living.  We should arrive there on Feb. 25th at 10:30a.m. PNG time.  There are a lot of mixed emotions as our days here are now numbered, but we are taking one day at a time by the Lord’s grace. 

Goodbyes are hard, but we praise the Lord that this life is not all there is to live for.  Christ’s example of leaving His “home” in heaven to come give us the gift of eternal life continues to spur us on.  We are excited to see what He will do in and through us to help reach many lives in Papua New Guinea through the ministry of dorm parenting!

Thank you to so many of you who are such an important part of this ministry as well!  Your prayers, support, love, friendship, and encouragement make a huge difference!  We could not do this without you and pray the Lord will bless you for your many sacrifices as well!

PLEASE PRAY with us about:

  1. Strength and an eternal perspective as we say goodbyes (especially to our parents/grandparents)!
  2. The Lord’s provision for approximately $750/month still needed in support.
  3. Comfort and health with so many changes to come!
  4. 26 days of time well spent before we go!
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A Refreshing Vacation in the U.P.

Posted by Jon and Katie Ruse on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010

It’s not easy to “Be Still and Know That I Am God“.  After a very busy spring and summer we felt drained as a family and in need of some undistracted time with each other and the Lord.  This was part of what led us to focus on a week of prayer.  God answered many prayers during that time as well as refreshing our spirits.  We were then able to go on our first family vacation (with no work attached) in a long time. 100_5201

We stayed at a friends cabin in the U.P. and enjoyed many activites, but especally relaxing by the lake or around the campfire.  We visited Oswald Bear Ranch were Katelyn had a close encounter with a bear cub, we also visited Tahquamenon Falls State Park, and Cut River Bridge for site seeing and hiking.

Thanks so much for praying for us recently!  We are back home and working hard on organizing supplies, catching up on correspondences, visiting with people, a new newsletter, updating this website, planning a trip to Indiana, and preparing for a church presentation Sunday.

Pray with us about these things: more opportunties to share our ministry, timing for supplies and shipping to PNG, preparing to begin homeschooling again, maintaining a passion for the Lord Jesus Christ.

Enjoy all of the pictures of our family!

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